"I guess we have an open house this weekend? Just because we are out of state doesn't mean our Realtor should not update us."
We have more communication options at our fingertips than at any other time in history. Communication technology is so pervasive, we are left without excuses for sharing any piece of important information in a timely manner.
The consumer quote shown above was a "tweet" from ymiris on Twitter. I don't have a clue what the back story is to this social message. It doesn't matter. In communication, perception is reality.
He's right even if he's wrong. He's right even if the Realtor® "tried" to update them. Why? Good communicators make it their responsibility to ensure that their messages are understood. They leave the listener with no doubts.
In my own personal experience, the part of the home selling process that should be the simplest - communicating about what's happening in the process - is the one that has been most disappointing to me. But it is not surprising to me.
Effective communication has nothing to do with technology.
Effective communication is possible without being a part of the technorati. You don't need any of the latest, greatest internet communication tools that are available today. You don't need an iPhone. You don't need Twitter or a Facebook account. You don't need a MySpace page, Jott or Utterz.
You just need a desire to communicate. And maybe a working telephone.
Jeff Turner aka respres

Alan... Yes, technology makes it easier to execute, if you are a good communicator. No question about that. But technology can't make you a good communicator. In fact, prevalence of technology raises the bar.
And I'm certainly NOT saying you should be using every tool the make sense.
Marlene... you are correct. A vacuum is not what you want. Fill the dead air with something.
Georgina... understanding and setting communication expectations early in the process is one of the keys. No question. Not doing that is probably the biggest mistake. We've all made it once or twice or a hundred times, I'm sure. I know I have. And probably will again. It's a discipline.
My goal with each client is to make sure I know when and how much communication they want to hear from me. Most of my sellers simply want a weekly update to tell them what happened (if anything) and what I was doing for them the past week. Buyers want more frequent updates of homes that meet their needs. Finding out the expectations ahead of time has made my life much easier.
Best,
Scott
You gave me a chuckle.
Agents with every tech gadget known aren't going to communicate any better than without if they don't care.
I call agents regularly who tout their "technology skills" and they don't even answer their cell phone.
Agents buy tech, they don't necessarily use it. I send e-mails to 5-6 agents and one will return my message within 12 hours, my window for referrals.
I can't figure it.
Bad habits are bad habits. I don't care what gadgets you have available. Like Lenn I can't figure it!
Jeff...on target, as always. The key is knowing *how* the client wants you to communicate with them, and then reaching them in that way...
Cheers,
Heather
Karen, no blog makeover. :) I was showing solidarity for a few who have been told not to use custom CSS in their AR posts. :)
Lenn... exactly my point. And I can't figure it either.
Randy... exactly. These are tools. In the right hands, they do great things. In the wrong hands, not so much.
Enjoyed the banter about communication. Keeping the channels of communication open is always key to good relationships... it's just figuring out which language to speak that can be a challenge.
Hey Jeff - when we ask clients what the single most important aspect of choosing a Realtor is, the answer is COMMUNICATION!!! We get a lot of expired business because of communication issues.
And something else that is very simple and "doable" - ANSWER THE PHONE!!
Jeff, you are absolutely correct! I am always available to my clients via phone and/or the internet - whether they or I am out of town or not! If I will be out of reach via telephone, they will know it before I leave, and I will have someone covering for me. That doesn't happen often, but just as communication is key with our children, our spouses, our friends, so is it with our customers. Good reminder for all of us. All of the "toys" we accumulate on the Rain or elsewhere are "fun" and sometimes "useful" but won't make our customers happy!! ;-)
Jeff
Well put, I know people who don't even own a computer and are still top's in their field!
very interesting! good read.
I think that if many agents setup a expectation and schedule of contact with clients(say every Thursday evening) that would eliminate many of these issues.Of course, you would have to follow through.