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250 Pounds Of Underwear For Africa

underwear for africaI Am Always Inspired By Generosity.

The photos you see to the right are the evidence of generosity. They are the physical manifestation of an outpouring of kindness that began in one special moment when an inspired Mother reached into her purse and gave $19 to another inspired Mother.

Underwear For Africa Was Born Just 21 Days Ago.

And today, thanks to the the help of many Mothers here on ActiveRain and many other Mothers around the United States, five 20 x 20 x 20 boxes stuffed to capacity, each weighing 50 pounds, are making their way to Nairobi, Kenya via Virgin Atlantic.

The response to "How The Sight Of Underwear Brought Me To Tears" has been amazing. I'm sure the folks at NP Dodge had no idea what was going to transpire when they put together the backpack for my wife.

That Was Just 10 Days Ago.

This is the power of social networks when they are called into action. They work with great speed and the power of large numbers works to create results in mere days that would have taken weeks to achieve using traditional methods.

Those Of You Who Gave, Thank You.

You know who you are and so do I. I can only hope that when you look at these photos, that you have a sense of joy and pride. And when you see the photos of the faces as they receive your gifts, I hope you will take a moment to let those feelings rise up again and inspire you even further.

There Were Many Tears Shed Tonight.

My wife is fulfilling a dream over these next 21 days. For years, Rocky has longed to go to Africa to provide assistance. And you have helped to take that dream to a new level. For that I am extremely grateful.

I was reduced to a slobbering idiot as I watched a very happy, very tearful Mother hug her children goodbye this evening. She had not let herself believe it was really going to happen until the very last moment. Then it hit her all at once. This was really happening. It was pure joy.

And, with any luck, it will continue to happen.

We received a large box of underwear today that could not make it on this journey. There will be others going on their own journeys who will become the messengers for future boxes. But these boxes are going to tell a story. You can follow along if the mood strikes.

My Journey To Africa - an online diary of her journey.

Mothers Fighting For Others Flickr Photos
- photos taken along the way.

Mothers Fighting For Others - the official MFFO blog.

There will also be a video diary and I will come back and update the link for that when it is available.

Once again, thank you to each of you gave your encouragement, either in the kind words uttered in the comments, or by your actions over the last 10 days.

You have helped fulfill a dream.

58 commentsJeff Turner • September 29 2007 02:15AM

Comments

That is absoluteltly awesome, you are awesome.

Life is not about the money, the fame, the title, Life is about giving.

 

My favorite poem is by Emerson who says: Success is to know one life has breathed easier because you have existed.

Posted by Brett Noel (Keller Williams) over 2 years ago
Brett.. thank you. I am not awesome, but I can guarantee you that my wife IS awesome! Truly. I love that quote!
Posted by Jeff Turner (Real Estate Shows) over 2 years ago
You both are....your wife sounds like a wonderful woman each time you describe her and how you feel. Wonderful. beautiful....thank you for sharing your most intimate and passionate moments.
Posted by Celeste "SALLY" Cheeseman HAWAII Relocations & Real Estate (Century 21 Liberty Homes) over 2 years ago
Jeff I had not seen your posts prior to tonight.  What a great thing you and your wife have done.  It's amazing something so little can mean so much!!  I am inspired by what you've done.
Posted by Sandy Noll (Realtor @ Keller Williams Realty Kirkland) over 2 years ago
Sally... thank you. If you ever get a chance to meet my wife, you'll know that she is not someone you can have a moderate feeling about. You're either going to hate her or love her.  I fall into the latter camp. She's intense. My sister, who is with her on this trip, says she is completely out of her mind. She is a woman with exceptional strengths and exceptional weaknesses, and I love each and every one of each.
Posted by Jeff Turner (Real Estate Shows) over 2 years ago
Sandy... I never imagined. I am blown away by the outpouring of help on this one. It has inspired me as well. 
Posted by Jeff Turner (Real Estate Shows) over 2 years ago
hey Jeff, that is an amazing amount of donations in such a short period of time. So glad on that success! now i guess you're not an idiot, cause i'm slobbering a little and well.. you know.. having a heart doesn't qualify as an idiot. :)  wish i would have acted upon the urge to help. giving is such a fulfilling thing.. just amazing. thanks for sharing so far and will be watching the diary. :)
Posted by Nick M -Realtor®-Appraiser in West Palm- South Florida Real Estate Appraiser (Certified Residential Appraiser- West Palm Beach Real Estate) over 2 years ago
Jeff, I read this and am too blown away with you and all that you have done to bring this story to life. I am heading off to night night land but I have this bookmarked and will read it again and follow the links in the morning. Well done my friend.  You make me very proud to know  you Jeff!
Posted by San Diego Real Estate Voice authored by William Johnson GRI CRS e-Pro CDPE (RE/MAX Associates) over 2 years ago
PS, And your Wife too of course! What a wonderful thing to be able to think about as I fall asleep!
Posted by San Diego Real Estate Voice authored by William Johnson GRI CRS e-Pro CDPE (RE/MAX Associates) over 2 years ago
Jeff, your wife IS awesome.  You are awesome too, like it or not.  The sight of those boxes is so impressive.  Who would think that underware were so important? (I slobbered too)
Posted by Chris Elizabeth Griffith ~ Bonita Springs Fl Real Estate (Downing-Frye Realty, Bonita Springs, FL) over 2 years ago
Jeff, seem like you have a superstar for a wife. Congrats to both of you. Very inspiring.
Posted by Century 21 First Realty over 2 years ago

The little things we take for granted...making a world of difference.  I am more disappointed now that I didn't make that trip to Blackwater to see you guys.  My thoughts and prayers with Rocky (& you) while she's on her journey.

Posted by Bob Carney Licensed MD/PA Real Estate Agent (Long & Foster Real Estate, Inc.) over 2 years ago
Rocky is one of my heroes, no doubt about it.  
Posted by Sarah Cooper (Real Estate Shows) over 2 years ago
I am not sure how I missed all this as I would have surely wanted to do something to help.  I have a feeling there will be an opportunity when Rocky returns and I plan to be more attentive this time.
Posted by Linda Davis (RE/MAX Realty Group) over 2 years ago

Jeff,

I never met or spoken to her but it seems she puts others ahead of herself. Sometimes it is hard to commit to something such as this and you should be very proud of her. I'm proud of her because I could not partake in such a great thing she is doing. I'm not religious but I know when you do something like this it will come back to you as a very positive thing and someone is looking down at her ...saying...You done good:)

Posted by Neal Bloom-Realtor ® Assoc.-CRS-Weston FL (Keller Williams Properties) over 2 years ago
way to go - congratulations!!!
Posted by Bill's Blog - Florida Realty Professional - AHWD (Charles Rutenberg Realty) over 2 years ago

Wow - You always make me take a deep breath and evaluate.   First I think you are a brilliant man and so willing to share.  And then there's Rocky, who through your writing I feel I know and so aspire to have such "human" goals.   I am thrilled she's making the trip.  I wish I knew sooner for I would have "contributed". 

Heck, I joke with my team that we all need such a humbling experience to appreciate what we truly have in a "life" prospective.   You Go Rocky.. I'll be reading that journal wishing I was there.

Posted by Desiree Daniels (RE/MAX Tri County) over 2 years ago

Jeff - This is an incredible testament to the wondrous things that happen when folks put their hearts and minds together.  You are truly married to a wonderful woman and are obviously very proud of her - and rightfully so.  But the flip side of that is that she probably would not realize her dream without your support.  Together you both are unstoppable.

Thank you to you and Rocky - for all those smiles that are soon to be generated in Kenya.  I am so proud for both of you. 

Posted by Carol Smith (Casmi Photography) over 2 years ago

Nick... maybe we're both idiots? ;) 

William... you and I need to finally meet face to face my friend. A trip down to San Diego is in order when my wife returns. Perhaps a mini AR gathering?

Chris... I would never have imagined. She is already lining up volunteers to take the next load of boxes. Part of her goal for the trip is to establish real connections with groups that she can work with on other projects as well, like water purification.

Joe... I do. I'm a very lucky man. Very. Thank you. 

 

Posted by Jeff Turner (Real Estate Shows) over 2 years ago

Bob... I wish the same thing. Thank you for your thoughts and prayers.

Sarah... you know she's going to be recruiting you hard when she returns! :)

Linda... I know that for a fact, all of it!

Neal... you're right. It's very hard to commit to something like this. But her passion is unwavering on this. It's just a part of who she is. It's in her DNA. And you surely don't need to be religious to understand the truth of what you're saying. 

Desiree... thank you! I'm going to be reading it wishing I were there too. :)

Carol... thank you. I can't wait to see the photos and read her thoughts. I'm literally chomping at the bit.  

 

Posted by Jeff Turner (Real Estate Shows) over 2 years ago

MY country USA never seems to amaze me for the help we keep pouring out to others no bad how others try to make us look.

Posted by Susan Trombley Broker/Realtor Raleigh, Cary, Wake Forest, Youngsville (Trombley Real Estate) over 2 years ago

Susan... 100% true.

 

I just got off the phone with Rocky. She landed safely in London for her transfer to Nairobi. Skype rocks. :) 

Posted by Jeff Turner (Real Estate Shows) over 2 years ago
Jeff, she's already got me.
Posted by Sarah Cooper (Real Estate Shows) over 2 years ago

Jeff:

I am so proud of Rocky, of you, of the Active Rain supporters--and of the results from this effort. How many kids are in the orphanage?

We look forward to seeing a few slide shows from Rocky's trip!

Thanks so much for sharing this effort.

Posted by Roberta Murphy -- Carlsbad Real Estate and Homes (San Diego Previews * Previews Luxury Real Estate) over 2 years ago

Sarah... :)

Roberta... THANK YOU! Truly special.

Posted by Jeff Turner (Real Estate Shows) over 2 years ago
Hello all From London! Thank you all for the nice words. To answer Roberta. The orphanage I am staying at is a girls home of about 40, ages 2-15. GVN told me they will provide me assistance to get to other orphanages in the area to distribute the undies. I am really excited to be able to reach so many kids!! Thank you all!
Posted by Racquel Turner (Mothers Fighting For Others) over 2 years ago
Rocky... I love you!
Posted by Jeff Turner (Real Estate Shows) over 2 years ago
That's incredible. Only 10 day? I'll be sure to follow her blog.
Posted by Lisa Hill (Daytona Beach Real Estate) (Florida Property Experts) over 2 years ago
I am in tears too.... way to go - you and your family are so generous thank you
Posted by Central Oregon Real Estate | Broker Thesa Chambers, Licensed in Oregon (Prudential NW Properties Sunriver) over 2 years ago

Lisa... ten days, starting from zero. Amazing.

Thesa... I have a feeling there's more to come. :)

Posted by Jeff Turner (Real Estate Shows) over 2 years ago
what an idiot!!!Morning Jeff..! if by idiots you mean slow to turn a cold shoulder, slow to ignore the problems that plague others, slow to help another soul, slow to show love for people.. then yes dear Sir, we are IIIIDIIIIIIIIOTS!! :^)

when you coming to south FL..?! :)  

EDIT: commented just fine now. the 8 was from this morning.. PS. you two are incredible..! 10 DAYS!! daaaaang. i had 6 weeks.  you are both super heroes, right? :) 

Posted by Nick M -Realtor®-Appraiser in West Palm- South Florida Real Estate Appraiser (Certified Residential Appraiser- West Palm Beach Real Estate) over 2 years ago

Jeff, Very inspiring post. From the little I know of Rocky you are one fortunate man. Did you know we have something in common? If not you just wrote it:

"She is a woman with exceptional strengths and exceptional weaknesses, and I love each and every one of each."

Well stated my friend. 

Posted by Bryant Tutas-Tutas Towne Realty, Inc over 2 years ago
Well don't forget to update us...  I am anxious to hear all about the whole adventure...  How wonderful!
Posted by Desiree Daniels (RE/MAX Tri County) over 2 years ago

Nick... then we are most certainly idiots! :) As soon as I can, my friend. As soon as I can.

Bryant... thank you. I can imagine you know exactly how I feel. :)

Desiree... OK, Deal!

Posted by Jeff Turner (Real Estate Shows) over 2 years ago
Here's an update: Rocky called from the van that picked her up in Nairobi. All of the boxes arrived in perfect condition, untouched by customs. They are now on their way to some orientation meetings and their first night will be spent at a guest house in Nairobi. She was beyond joyful. :)
Posted by Jeff Turner (Real Estate Shows) over 2 years ago

Hi Jeff-I have been following Rocky's journey on her personal blog and I am truly amazed at what she has accomplished.  She is an amazing lady and it rocks that you both can see beyond the United States as far as needs of humans and the fight for poverty.

As I get older, I am wiser...at least I would like to think so.....there are no boundries when it comes to human life......we all have to do a small part in order to make a difference.  Life is precious regardless of who it is!

My parents have taught me to be giving and charitable....imagine your children have these awesome stories they will be able to share about their role models.  They can follow if they choose....you two are making so many other's dreams come true.... I am so excited for Rocky..for your family...for the orphanage.  How incredible that these children will be touched by someone as beautiful as Rocky.  

I can't wait to read her blog...I know I will probably need tissues and my reading glasses.  God Bless you and your family Jeff.  Rocky is Woman!

p.s.  I love her hair and I think she is one of the few that can pull it off... 

Posted by Florida Real Estate Trainer | Daytona Beach After School Training | Midori (Coastal Results Referral Company) over 2 years ago
Thank-You!  I wish I had seen the first post on this.  I am truely inspired and will hold on to the official website for Mothers Fighting For Others... it speak to my heart. 
Posted by Kim Quintal (Cornerstone Realty) over 2 years ago

Rocky: Please let us know of other needs--especially those that might fit into shoe boxes:-) Thanks so much for checking in and keeping us abreast of your travels. Stay joyful!

Jeff: Thanks--and keep the updates coming!

 

Posted by Roberta Murphy -- Carlsbad Real Estate and Homes (San Diego Previews * Previews Luxury Real Estate) over 2 years ago
Hi Jeff, This is extraordinary.  We can never underestimate the power of Love!  Particularly when it is called into "Action."  I'll be following Rocky's journey and supporting you all in my thoughts and prayers.
Posted by Lola Audu~Audu Real Estate~Grand Rapids, MI Real Estate over 2 years ago

In times of War and negative news.......  There's Rock Turner and Julie..

Rocky is certianly a soldier of a different kind.  She fights from the heart n soul.

I'm blessed and fortunate to know her; and learn from her.   The lesson your kids are getting from her actions are much more than any school could ever teach, and her impact is farther reaching than we imagine.

 Can't wait to read her posts and hear all about her efforts.

M

Posted by Martin Rodriguez - Senior Loan Consultant (Prospect Mortgage) over 2 years ago

Midori... thank you. We hope the kids get it. We talk about what they're mom is doing every day, even when she is here. I think this trip will bring it to life for them. 

Kim... No, thank you!

Posted by Jeff Turner (Real Estate Shows) over 2 years ago

Roberta... They are safe in Nairobi and yesterday were able to deliver the first of the underwear to a different orphanage than the one they are working in. They have already coordinated with some of the other volunteers from around the world to help them deliver the extra underwear to other orphanages. There are "only" 40 girls in the orphanage they are working at, but one of the volunteers is going to an orphanage with 800 children. The need is great, so the 5 boxes will not go unused by any stretch of the imagination.

Posted by Jeff Turner (Real Estate Shows) over 2 years ago
Lola... it is indeed. I spoke with her yesterday after a trip into downtown Nairobi. She has been to the poorest parts of Guatemala and the Phillipines, and she was struck by the similarities that all third world big cities share. She has not had an internet connection to post since arriving in Africa, but she soon will. Thank you.
Posted by Jeff Turner (Real Estate Shows) over 2 years ago
Martin... well, since you live next door, you know us better than anyone else in this network. I'm sure you're going to get a lot more than just the posts. :) Thanks for being there when we need you.
Posted by Jeff Turner (Real Estate Shows) over 2 years ago
Jeff: Thanks for the update! Too bad another 20 boxes aren't trailing Rocky in her travels:-)
Posted by Roberta Murphy -- Carlsbad Real Estate and Homes (San Diego Previews * Previews Luxury Real Estate) over 2 years ago

Jeff - Thank you for keeping us in the loop. I wish Rocky the very best on her journey and look forward to checking in with her on her Journey to Africa blog.

I am excited to say that I have been working on putting together an Underwear for Africa drive here and hope to have another box or two for Rocky when she returns home.

You both are truly an inspiration. Thank you for all you do.

;-)

Posted by Jennifer Wilson - Agent Solutions (Agent Solutions) over 2 years ago

Roberta... I'm sure there will be, as Jennifer's comment illustrates. :)

Jennifer... that is fantastic!  I just got off the phone with Rocky. She still has not been able to locate an internet connection, so she dictated her first day's pot to me. It can be found here:  http://myjourneytoafrica.wordpress.com/2007/09/30/day-1/

Posted by Jeff Turner (Real Estate Shows) over 2 years ago

That's great Jeff. Thanks! I'm off to read Day #1 post. ;-)

Posted by Jennifer Wilson - Agent Solutions (Agent Solutions) over 2 years ago

This whole social network thing sure has alot of power.  NP Dodge Company wishes your wife the best and hopes her travels touch many lives. 

Posted by NP Dodge Real Estate over 2 years ago
NP Dodge... thank you!
Posted by Jeff Turner (Real Estate Shows) over 2 years ago

Jeff,

I had said on your first post, about this, that you and your wife were wonderful, But now more than ever you should be proud!!!!

I think it's very Honorable :0)

Tom Weiss

Posted by Thomas Weiss (Thomas R. Weiss) over 2 years ago
Thomas... I am very proud. She called today at around 10pm Nairobi tiime... completely exhausted and filled with joy.
Posted by Jeff Turner (Real Estate Shows) over 2 years ago

I am in tears right now. Rocky left me a message to transcribe. I put part of it up on MP3 so you could hear the emotion in her voice. I'm so happy for her.

http://myjourneytoafrica.wordpress.com/2007/10/02/day-3-arrival-at-st-monicas/ 

Posted by Jeff Turner (Real Estate Shows) over 2 years ago

I listened to Rocky's message and it almost made me cry.  I will pray that her journey is safe and she has many more exciting journeys ahead.  She is great for doing this ... and Jeff you are great for allowing her to do this.

You are a very generous man to share your wife. Kudos to both of you!

Posted by Donna Oehler " A.V. Foreclosure Specialist" (HomeBased Realty) over 2 years ago
Donna... thank you, but I couldn't have kept her here if I had wanted to! I'm not so much generous and understanding of the limits of my power and influence. :)
Posted by Jeff Turner (Real Estate Shows) over 2 years ago

I just received some photos from a Mother in the United States that Rocky met online and met in person for the firs time... IN AFRICA! Amazing story. They are now up at Mothers Fighting For Others On Flickr. A couple of the photos speak volumes to me. This one of Rocky:

Rocky And Child 

And this one of my sister, Juli Salvante

Julie And Child

Posted by Jeff Turner (Real Estate Shows) over 2 years ago
Beautiful photos Jeff. It is so great to see those beautiful smiles.
Posted by Jennifer Wilson - Agent Solutions (Agent Solutions) over 2 years ago

The last Rocky and Child photo at Mothers Fighting for Others in Flickr (on the first page) is amazing. It sure puts things into perspective, at least for me.

Everyone involved with Mothers Fighting for Others...You are all angels.

Posted by Jennifer Wilson - Agent Solutions (Agent Solutions) over 2 years ago

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